The Voice

Apple is not better than tomatoes; they only serve a different purpose. Equally people, things and situations are unique, so trying to see them with the same eyes is undermining their essence. Learn to enjoy the beauty of individual differences, which is where the world gets its color. When you begin to compare your partner's characteristics to another, it would only blindfold you to the good sides of your partner. It's just like comparing eyes to legs, you might be mistaken to think eyes are superior to legs, but none is inferior to another, they've only got a different purpose. Comparison does no good than to make you appreciate less what you have. Don't ever play the game of comparing different things, timing or people. When you judge your relationships by the characteristic of another is when you will think theirs is better, but theirs is just different and not better.                  ...

Everyone has got a soft spot and until you touch that part of a man or woman, nothing changes. There is a way you will talk that can break the hardest of soul and there is a way you will act that the toughest person will care to listen. When that soft spot is touched, no person can resist yielding to your desire. It’s the breaking point in everyone, where he/she melt like an ice cream under the sun. And I do not mean only physical when I say soft spot, it is talking or acting in a way that touches the softness in a person, which is peculiar to every individual. I remembered that day my husband touched my softest spot with his kindness, my spirit, soul, and body find it the easiest to submit and irresistible to love him till next life and beyond. Equally, that husband, wife, children, relatives, boss, the customer also have a soft spot. You haven't had your way yet with them because you are yet to touch their soft spot, you have only and always being touching their hard...