The Voice

The easiest way to win anyone is to place a high values on what they hold dear, precious and values. It is only natural for people of similar values to be found together. It would come easy for a sport oriented person to easily flow with another of the same.  I won the interest of a great mentor, unknowingly to me, because I had placed value on what he loves and cherish and that was just the beginning of it. Whatever my husband values as always being my priorities and it makes it easy for him to love me till always and forever. If you know what your partner values, it’s high time you start placing value on those. Apostle Paul stayed with Aquila and Priscilla; because he was of the same craft. We appreciate people of shared values and so celebrate similarities with others. People will celebrate you when you place value on whatever means so much to them. Some of my values are responsiveness, respect, friendliness, openness and to get me to the table, just display any o...

The highest form of knowledge is empathy. It is a strong connection point with others. It’s a needed skill for harmonious relationship and to also minimize stress and strain. When we develop our power of empathy, the other party opens up to us, fostering a happy union. Loving others is simply loving oneself. When we judge people’s act, we can’t also have the time to love them. But if you want to love others, show empathy. A lot of times, we show sympathy when in actually sense people need our empathy. To show empathy is to see with the eyes of another, hears through the ears of another and listen with the heart of another. We connect more, deeper and better with one another that way. Showing empathy is for you to understand the likely challenges the other might likely be going through and vice versa. It reduces the invisible gap, knowing someone else can feels what you are feeling and understand best. Empathy is the greatest virtue, from it all virtues flow and without it, all...

We can only be close to perfection, but we can’t be perfect. It would only be frustrating to expect perfection from anyone. We must learn to accept this reality that no one can be everything to you, and that you also can’t be a hundred percent. No matter how self sufficient we are, we will always need others as much as they need us. And no matter how strong we or others are, we always have a breaking point. Human’s needs are insatiable and as such no matter how super hero your man is, or how virtuous your woman is, he/she can’t be everything you want from her or do everything you desire. He/she is only human with limitations, so learn to enjoy whatever it’s in their human capacity and capability to do. When we newly got married, because I knew myself to be conscientious and up to the task. I put myself in that perfection state, and so will often feel bad as though I am not human when my husband points out my limitations, until I learnt that I could be called an angel, bu...