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Relationship Booster: Listening Ear




You will agree with me that there are some problems that do not need any other solution than a listening ear. "A problem shared is half solved" how then can that be when the other isn't even listening. Lets not be mistaken, to be silent is not the same as to listen. Because there is passive listening as well as active listening. You might want to know?

Have you ever been in a conversation with someone and you were asked immediately what was said and you can't say a thing ? That is a passive listening and it would do our relationships no good. But an active listening is an intentional kind, where we can listen with our ears and eyes, where we can hear what the person is not even saying.

You meet a need each time you listen to your partner. You are indirectly telling him/her that, I validate your opinion, you come first, you are important and worthy of my attention. We must not forget this, that everyone loves to be heard. Listening is one of the actions that speaks louder than words.



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