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Relationship Boosters: Mentality of Give and Take

"Give me, Give me Attitude" shortens the life span of any relationship, because life is a give and take, while death is a take and take. Any relationship without an exchange (give and take) will soon be dead. When anyone takes too much from a relationship than they give, life is being taken away from it gradually. 

He who only knows how to take and not to give, becomes a parasite and might never be "A can't do without person". We should give, not because the other person lacks, but because we need to make deposits in order to withdraw for account not to show danger.

I had lost friends in the past because of this deficiency, not because I wanted anything back, but because we all need to bring something to the table (time, effort or money) even if it’s not equivalent. Just like the image above is a moment of reunion, where we shared value.

God GIVES us life and we GIVE him the glory. Our parent GIVE birth to us and we GIVE them honor. A man GIVES the bride price and the woman GIVE UP her maiden name. Jesus GAVE UP his life and TAKES the highest name. Many times, we often GIVE our money to TAKE up a value (goods or services). Life is a give and take and not a take and take.

Don't be such a person, when the only time you give anyone a call or visit is when you need something from them. Let's not be users of men, rather let's be men of honor and good relationship. Men who longs to give as much as they also take.

#GiveAsYouTake
#BeAGiverAndNotALoser
#GivingQualifiesUsToBeAReceiver 
#RelationshipIsAGiveAndTake

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