Relationship Booster: Touch the Soft Spot

Everyone has got a soft spot and until you touch that part of a man or woman, nothing changes. There is a way you will talk that can break the hardest of soul and there is a way you will act that the toughest person will care to listen.

When that soft spot is touched, no person can resist yielding to your desire. It’s the breaking point in everyone, where he/she melt like an ice cream under the sun. And I do not mean only physical when I say soft spot, it is talking or acting in a way that touches the softness in a person, which is peculiar to every individual.

I remembered that day my husband touched my softest spot with his kindness, my spirit, soul, and body find it the easiest to submit and irresistible to love him till next life and beyond.

Equally, that husband, wife, children, relatives, boss, the customer also have a soft spot. You haven't had your way yet with them because you are yet to touch their soft spot, you have only and always being touching their hard spot. So please find their softest part, touch it and have them yield to your satisfaction.

Can you imagine a bus conductor wishing a passenger a beautiful day when alighting from the bus? It must have been because she acted or spoke in a good way that broke their usual shouting and abusive manner by her calmness and sweetness even without going off the expected limit.

Touching people soft spot intentionally is no bribery and corruption, it's no acting as if they are God or that you have no God or that you are inferior. But it's giving the best of you to get the better of others and doing it with all sincerity.

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