Apple is not better
than tomatoes; they only serve a different purpose. Equally people, things and
situations are unique, so trying to see them with the same eyes is undermining
their essence. Learn to enjoy the beauty of individual differences, which is
where the world gets its color.
When you begin to
compare your partner's characteristics to another, it would only blindfold you
to the good sides of your partner. It's just like comparing eyes to legs, you
might be mistaken to think eyes are superior to legs, but none is inferior to
another, they've only got a different purpose.
Comparison does no
good than to make you appreciate less what you have. Don't ever play the game
of comparing different things, timing or people. When you judge your relationships by
the characteristic of another is when you will think theirs is better, but
theirs is just different and not better.
You can’t expect not
to see changes in your five years ago and now just as it reflects in this
picture and in reality, so also you can’t expect the same thing from different
people, relationship and situations, because everything is unique. See the best
of your good and see the good of your fair enough. This stand point makes life
easier and causes our relationships to flourish.
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