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Relationship Boosters: Quit Comparison

Apple is not better than tomatoes; they only serve a different purpose. Equally people, things and situations are unique, so trying to see them with the same eyes is undermining their essence. Learn to enjoy the beauty of individual differences, which is where the world gets its color.

When you begin to compare your partner's characteristics to another, it would only blindfold you to the good sides of your partner. It's just like comparing eyes to legs, you might be mistaken to think eyes are superior to legs, but none is inferior to another, they've only got a different purpose.

Comparison does no good than to make you appreciate less what you have. Don't ever play the game of comparing different things, timing or people. When you judge your relationships by the characteristic of another is when you will think theirs is better, but theirs is just different and not better.
                            
You can’t expect not to see changes in your five years ago and now just as it reflects in this picture and in reality, so also you can’t expect the same thing from different people, relationship and situations, because everything is unique. See the best of your good and see the good of your fair enough. This stand point makes life easier and causes our relationships to flourish.

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