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Relationship Booster: Shared Value

The easiest way to win anyone is to place a high values on what they hold dear, precious and values. It is only natural for people of similar values to be found together. It would come easy for a sport oriented person to easily flow with another of the same. 

I won the interest of a great mentor, unknowingly to me, because I had placed value on what he loves and cherish and that was just the beginning of it. Whatever my husband values as always being my priorities and it makes it easy for him to love me till always and forever. If you know what your partner values, it’s high time you start placing value on those.

Apostle Paul stayed with Aquila and Priscilla; because he was of the same craft. We appreciate people of shared values and so celebrate similarities with others. People will celebrate you when you place value on whatever means so much to them.

Some of my values are responsiveness, respect, friendliness, openness and to get me to the table, just display any of these and we are good. And it might not come easy for me to relate with people who doesn't share in my value systems. Above is a picture of like minds, people with shared value and relating well just comes so easy.


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