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Relationship Booster: Breathing Space


Everyone needs a breathing space for healthy living and survival. Breathing space from things, places and people, even God had his one day out of seven days of the week, where he abstained from work, things and people and all he created and he desire us to do likewise.

We must not overdo things, some people will work ten days out of the seven days of the week, head overworking ahead of the days and time while letting their relationship to suffer. My husband will often tell me the place of work in our marriage and it never exceeds there for anyone of us.

We equally need breathing space sometimes away from our partner, as a lot of relationships suffer suffocation or choking by their partner, as they don’t have a single space for self. We might be couple, but we are also individuals and both sides of our lives must be respected and honored.

Even couple sometimes need breathing space from their children, where they can both be together without interruption, that way they can arrange a safe outing for their children for them to achieve that. My husband and I have lovely shared moments and we also have our individual space where we can both do our thing without fear of judgment or any offense.

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