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Relationship Building Blocks: Avoid Generalisation




There is peculiarity in everything in life. One must not make the mistake of treating people, and situations as though they are the same. Some generalize that men are unfaithful, while some others concludes that women are lovers of money. 

In order to have a beautiful relationship and marriage, one must treat his/her partner different from the general opinion and should handle situations from their unique standpoint.

An instance, you see a strange message on your partner's phone, it would be immature of you to immediately assume  anything when you haven't even asked him or her or thoroughly give the situation a thought. 

It would be unfair for you to think the way your neighbor husband is, is the way your husband too, simply because they share some similarity in traits or behavior, which has not being proven true.

We should learn to play the right card in our relationship, just like how we play it in WHOT game. We know just when to drop pick two, pick five, general market and check up. 

We should also know when to admit being guilty and apologize, when to over look mistakes, when to forgive, when to share, when to withhold, and when not to argue. It's time we stop handling circumstances the same or usual way, because every person or situation are unique in their own way and as such should be handled that way to get the best of our relationships.

#RelationshipBooster. 

#AvoidGeneralization



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