Little things are significant, especially when done consistently. Little act of kindness, kind words, kind visit, kind call, little gift, little smiles, discreet prayers, and simple text messages has the most lasting impact on relationships than the big gift we never give, and the big vacation we are too busy to plan.
Many wait for big wins, ignoring little wins which are the sweetest, longest, and the quickest way that sum up to big wins. Just as mustard seed looks tiny, yet when mixed with actions of planting, brings the tallest tree. Likewise our small gesture of love and kindness, will yield big results and emotions.
Nothing is too small to give or too little to do. Any small thing done in love and with love turns big in the heart of the significant other. Love is a big word and act, so anything done in the spirit of love multiples and return back with seeds, fruits and trees.
The idea is that big things often takes more time, money and effort for it to happen, hence the frequency is low, but little things takes little or no effort, time or money for it to happen, hence it's frequency is high, but significantly, the summation of little things equal big things.
When you see your partner do what you don't like, it must be that the partner want you to do what he/she likes. It should be a call to action for you. Every reaction you get is a response to an action you took. So when reaction is not our desired, actions need a retake or replay.
Don't let a day pass by, not taking advantage of small gestures to others and even to yourself. Anything done from the place and point of love renews, refresh, rekindle and replenish.
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