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Relationship Building Block: Partnership Mindset

It would forever take the egg and the sperm to make a baby, just so the man and the woman does not outgrow themselves. It would take a father and mother to be called a parent, a man and a woman to be a couple. No one person can be married or called a husband and wife, it takes two to tango.



Life is too short not to enjoy the gift of life with the people in your life, also life is too long not to see who to hold hands with. Life is the people. Life is love, life is the memories, and life is the bond shared. Let's not only breathe in the air, let's breathe in all the love we can give and get. Let's breathe in all the breathtaking people in our lives and world. Let the you glow with others.


We can't live life alone or do it all by oneself, we need the other person and other people. The true beauty of life are the people who share it with. No one should downplay the gift of others. Even the beauty of Christmas is the giving, sharing, visiting and the bonding with others. It's never about the trees, lights, ornaments, decorations, dresses and caps. It's really about love, the people we love and the people who loves us.


We would always need people than we would not need them. Some doesn't even know the significance of neighbors till there is an emergency and you are at their mercy to call. Even business partners, until you are left alone to take all the risk. Above all others, your friends and families, they are the perfect definition of irreplaceable and sum total of meanifulness. No one in your life is insignificant, you only haven't just seen their significance and only time would tell. 


Let's be otherscentric and not egocentric, allowing the people in our lives to play their role to the maximum. Don't shoot yourself in the leg, by cutting people off, people that matter the most and still would matter in the long run. We can't do life life alone, its should not be part of the list of DIY - do it yourself. Do life with others.



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