You are first an individual before you became or will become a couple. It's the value you place on yourself that you would bring to the union. I remembered, everything I desired as a teen and single are my realities as a grown married woman.
I remembered saying no to almost all the men that came my way then, because there were some values I desired of my man. I simply desired it and I evidently got the same. I desired to be a leading author so badly and I am living the life now.
I was close to dropping out of school at first degree, with no single hope of sponsorship. I simply just desired and my desire birth a miracle of scholarship, in my wildest imagination could not have pictured. Yet, I got it because I desired it. The secret for mostly everything I got and experienced in life is my desire.
I had long desired to be a counselor even without studying psychology, and opportunities for it found me or I would say I found it. Our desire always set the stage for our realities. No one should desire nothing or desire less.
Long before I ever conceived, I desired becoming a mother so much that I didn't mourn that I am not one. I went to meet an artist to paint me a picture of myself being pregnant and I pasted it on my wall. My eyes saw this picture every day, my body saw it till it became the exact picture I drew. Oh! How I love desire, it's works like magic. When we don't experience our desire, its because we have not desired it enough.
Don't be afraid to desire, even if you don't know how it would come through and true. Just trust the process, trust The Creator of time to bring it to life in time. Believe that you truly deserve your desire. Don't fall beneath it, just keep desiring no matter how long it would take.
Our desires are like seeds, as soon as we have them, nurture them in our thoughts, its only a matter of time, they would grow into harvest and then we can enjoy the fruits of our realities.
It all start from you and it continue with others. What you cannot desire, you do not deserve to have. Most winners who ever emerged, badly desired it and their lifestyle supported their desires.
So whatever you want in and from that friendship, relationship and marriage, the first step to it is desire it so badly. Desire it like there is no alternative. Desire it as the only option and last resort and you would find the universe aligning to it.
Desire is a strong force as faith. It's you believing in what you want and need. It is you agreeing that you deserve what you are expecting. So keep desiring everything you want, keep imagining it, keep expecting it, keep talking it, keep praying it, keep writing it, keep hoping it, and keep faithing it and in no time, you will keep experiencing it.
It always begins with desire and ends with experiencing it. Everything God desired at the first day of creation, He experienced at the 6th day. Only then, did he rested at the 7th day. He kept calling His Desire forth. He desired light, spoke light and light He saw and experienced. No resting, no giving up until our desires manifest.
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