The Voice

How does this picture of me appears to you? However you interpret it, is how best I have being able to manage your impression about me. They say first impression goes a lot way and I say every impression goes a longer way. Impression management is when you ensure that your actual self is also how others perceive you. For instance, a man who is accountable to his wife sends a message that he can be trusted. An employee who regularly comes early to work gives an impression, that she is efficient and effective. A mother who is friendly towards her children sends a signal that she can be their confidant and a friend whom before you ask is readily available tell he is reliable and that is because impressions forms opinion.                When you are not cheating, lying, mean, wicked or unfaithful with money, please endeavor not to appear so, to others. Whatever you are not, don’t give any chances to be taken or p...

Generosity goes beyond giving of money; it extends to giving our time, knowledge, space, compliments, forgiveness and anything of value to others. Generosity isn’t about money but about the heart. “A generous heart, kind speech, a life of service and compassion are the things that renew humanity.” When he compels you to go a mile, you can go twain and whenever she asks, let her receive. Be generous with your compliments, when David kills 10,000; please sing it to his hearings. Abigail was able to save herself and family simply by her generosity of kind words and deed to David. “Generosity, kindness, honesty, humor – makes us truly rich.” Waylon Lewis   You can also be generous with your forgiveness, even when he/she doesn't deserves it, still go ahead and give it, such an act can turn a stony heart to gold. To your husband, be generous with your body, even when you don't feel like it, still give it anyway, just like a look at the sunrise tells of the generosity of God....

It’s better to expect less and be delighted than expect more and be disappointed. Life shouldn't be all about you and only what you want, life is also about others. So learn to expect less and make it easy for others to surprise and delight you.    It’s good to live with high expectations, because many times our expectations tend to become our experience. But it’s better to also have realistic expectations that won’t lead to any sort of pressure or frustration. Life is sweet when you are caught by pleasant surprises, than when you expect too much and have it all planned out. Please enjoy the unfolding of each day with your partner. Everyday should be beautiful with your loved ones. Many times my husband would return home with surprising and amazing gifts, at times he changes my wardrobe when I least expected. I remember when we newly got married. I expected too much and thought because I love my husband and he loves me, that there isn't supposed to be any misunder...