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Relationship Boosters: Be Generous

Generosity goes beyond giving of money; it extends to giving our time, knowledge, space, compliments, forgiveness and anything of value to others. Generosity isn’t about money but about the heart. “A generous heart, kind speech, a life of service and compassion are the things that renew humanity.”

When he compels you to go a mile, you can go twain and whenever she asks, let her receive. Be generous with your compliments, when David kills 10,000; please sing it to his hearings. Abigail was able to save herself and family simply by her generosity of kind words and deed to David. “Generosity, kindness, honesty, humor – makes us truly rich.” Waylon Lewis
 
You can also be generous with your forgiveness, even when he/she doesn't deserves it, still go ahead and give it, such an act can turn a stony heart to gold. To your husband, be generous with your body, even when you don't feel like it, still give it anyway, just like a look at the sunrise tells of the generosity of God.

Still go all the way to feed him more than what he gave. Sometimes thank her for what she is yet to do; it’s a good way to get her to do it, than withholding your kindness of gratitude. There is no better exercise for the heart than to show kindness to others.

Likewise be generous in paying attention to every of his/her details, even to his choice of hair cut or hair style, to his brand of wristwatch. My husband will many times choose hairstyles for me, while I sometimes follow him to barbing salon just to see for myself, the choicest haircut I want on him. “Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity.” Simone Weil

The above picture is one of our visits to an orphanage home on a valentine’s day, which was a great time of sharing. Our greatness is not what we have, but what we give.

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