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Relationship Booster: Make a Strong Point with Love

One thing to do in order to oil and m


oisturise our relationship is to always find a perfect moment to make a strong point. When your partner is weak of any sort (physical, financial, mental), you can show up your strength for him/her at such time, because it's such moment that he places his highest value on strength and that is not the time to deny him such. 


When your partner offends you in an unimaginable way, such is the perfect time for you to find it in you to forgive. At such times, she think she is underserving of your forgiveness and if you truly can brace up and bring yourself up to it, you have made the strongest of point. Meaning he might never be able to recover from that kindness, by holding you far too dear. 


True love is only known when it's the hardest to show, and known in the most difficult moments and not the rosy times we all think we love. The test of love can only be passed when you find it the hardest to love, yet you love anyways. it's when it cost you so much to give, yet you give it anyway. 


Loving someone when it's the easiest for you is a cheap version of love. Begin to love in a costly and expensive way. Didn't God gave up his only begotten son for us all. You might never know how costly this would have been for God, till you are a father/mother, then you can have a glimpse.


Many people find it the shortest route by throwing it all up and giving up on their partner and all they shared in a second and at the slightest of opportunity, because they can't bear the pain and sacrifices that true and lasting love requires. If love would last, then it would cost.


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