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Relationship Boosters: An Act of Gratitude


Gratitude has a miraculous effect on relationships while ingratitude reduces it to zero. Ingratitude spells out that the receiver takes the act of kindness for granted and it makes the giver feel wasteful, but when gratitude is shown, the game changes.

There was a day I wrote a gratitude letter to my husband, thanking him for every single act I could remember and I sealed it up with my red lip kisses. I didn't let the spirit of entitlement (its my right) rob me of opportunities to be thankful for his many act of kindness.

And guess what? He always does more and more and more and more and I always thank and thank and thank and thank. Even when I perform all my responsibilities as a wife, it doesn't go without a thank you, and that makes me want to give more than my best the next time.

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