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Relationship Booster: Open Mindedness

Let’s open our mind just as our eyes are open, for to be closed minded is no difference from physical blindness. Be open to experience, not all circumstances or people are exactly the same, make room for their differences. It’s a personality type required for a healthy relationship.

Relating with a close minded person can sometimes be frustrating. It’s someone who can’t see the other side, who can't think outside the box, who can't embrace a new perspective and too narrow minded. This mindset rob us of the life and fun of our relationship, it limit one's life and that of others.

It is close mindedness for a woman who was heartbroken by a man to conclude every man is unfaithful; even five men are only a few samples out of billion men in the world. Likewise for a woman to be generalized as women, and because your woman lied once should not make you form an unchanging opinion of her that she is a chronic liar, because a liar today can be the most sincere and open tomorrow. 

Be open and new, see situations independently to others. Allow yourself to enjoy the newness of people and situation. Because Monday was not as desired, should not make you conclude the week will end the same. Could you just give yourself a fresh air to see newly, perceive differently, and give yourself the opportunity to see new side of people. More so you are only a man not God not to be able to give a man like you a second and third chance to correct their wrong.

Be open to new ways of life, it’s a beautiful thing to do. You are no standard in any way so don't even try being the measure or yardstick. Be open to each day, to people, to situations even to challenges, because different challenge is a pointer to different lesson and never approach life in a mechanic and rigid way. 

Be open to new experience and don't be a victim of self fulfilling prophecy, where you will be the one setting the stage for the wrong that should not have happen to you or to your relationship. Or what points do anyone you call and conclude unfaithful and a liar want to prove to you again, if your opinion is already formed.


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#ToBeOpenIsToEmbraceLife



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