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Relationship Boosters:The Law of Exchange



To be irreplaceable, you must bring something of worth to the table when you are in a place or with someone. We call some people irreplaceable because they are value adding people, they earned it and not just a mere adjective.

This law simply says each person should contribute something valuable to another, in order to be and stay relevant and also to moisturise their relationship. Let no one be of the habit of taking, receiving, getting, collecting and never giving. The sea that did, without any exchange became a dead sea.

Any relationship or marriage that does not fulfil this law, will put a strain on their relationship. It's either the person loses his/her value, because something must leave your hand for you to earn something. There is no free meal at all, even the person who showered you all the love, want to be loved back. 

The reason that union is not working or will not work is because there is no exchange. So take corrective measures by starting where you are and with the little you have to give. You don't have to impress by wanting to give what you don't have. What you have is just enough to do the miracle.

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