The cheapest way to get who and what you want is to be like that person or thing. Likes will always attract likes. You want a faithful woman as a partner, then be faithful, and in no time the faithful man will find you.
You want your wife to be submissive, then submit in a manly way, she won't know when she will begin to yield to you at will. God was drawn to man in the garden of Eden because, only man was made in the likeness and image of God.
Why we struggle to get what we want, or what we want people we love to be is because we are far from what we want and expect from others. Imagine a woman who respect her man, she would never be disrespectful by the man, because disrespect will be strange to him.
Sometimes, when I want my daughter to do something, I don't even say it in words. I act it and before I know it, she act alongside with me. Even without the use of words, you can get someone to do something, simply by doing it.
Before you ask others to do anything or be anything, kindly be the first to do it or be that things. Its one of the best change tactics, by being a change agent to the change you want to lead.
You will never see a fish fly, or a bird swim because what a fish sees it's other fishes do is swim, and for bird, flying, so that is what will become of it. There was a story of a lion who find its habitation with dogs and begins to bark, as soon as he sees its true reflection as a lion in the water with other lions, it begin to roar. It's easy to do what you see others do, so be the good example.
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