Relationship Booster: Close the Gaps

If you don't want to be replaced, then you have to be rightly placed. The Gap you refuse to fill, another would soon fill up the space. There are no vacum in life.

In marriage, if you stop being the best friend to your spouse, another would (even opposite sex). In parenting, if you won't give a listening ear, and be a true support system to your children, their peers would soon be that support.

I had some friends at the time, we were extremely close, but distance created a gap. We innocently refused to bridge the gap with a call, text, chat, voice note, or anything. At some point, we struggled to get back to what we were before, even though the interest was there.

I had another friend, we haven't seen in 6 years, yet there was a deposit however little. She either check my status (a silent way of check up), or like my post or I send a voice note or pictures. We did something. And the time we saw, no one would believe we have been ways apart for so long, looking at the bond we shared.

Let no one leave their role unplayed, else one lose relevance. Some couple, when they become parent, they have a high tendencies to lose their couple touch, if no conscious effort is made in that direction. It doesn't come cheap, but the product of that effort is lifelong.

When benefit is far more than the cost or price to be paid, it makes commitment easy.

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