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Relationship Building Block: Principle of Placement

It is risky to let the most important person in your life feel less important. Their place should not be replaceable nor competitive. Family are what and who would be left when others have gone, so don't downplay their position. 



Many are alone and lonely today because they do not have a good balance and right placement of knowing where people, things and activities belong. Some are suffering from the wrong application or  none application of this principle. We should learn the balance in prioritizing people over things, activities, places and positions. Our Needs should be separated from our wants. 


In Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of needs, need for family, friendship, and connection to others comes third after you have food, shelter and  feel safe. It's a need and not just a need to come last, rather should come first, as long as we are physically safe. We should seek work-Life balance as well as We should always come before I, because two is greater than one.


#FamilyIsKing

#HumanBeforeActivities

#FamilyIsEverything

#RelationshipBeforeMaterials


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