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Relationship Boosters : Spiritual Intelligence

Common sense will only earn anyone a common relationship: but to have the best of relationships, we must be spiritually intelligent. 

You might think relationship is an emotional concept, yes it is, but it is also a spiritual concept, because everything is spiritual and nothing is ordinary: more so, we are spirit beings and we can control our outcomes with our spirit man.
Are you even aware that we need more than good food, fine looks, great sex, sweet words to keep our partner, we need Spirituality.

I conducted a research on 367 people and spirituality is one of the virtues in sustaining our relationship and also a look out for right and preferred partner.

In my marriage relationship, It appears that the atmosphere in our home is a true reflection of our spiritual fervency. And to enjoy the best of ourselves we invest more in spiritual things and there has being no better yesterdays.

Even Jesus was also spiritually intelligent by rebuking the devil even though it was peter who was speaking. He knows there is a spirit behind everything. If he hadn't known better, he would have seen his disciple (peter) as the devil and that would have ruined their relationship. 

Lets stop addressing our relationship with physicality,  E - motion wont solve a thing. Sometimes we need to address the act and not the actor, the behavior and not the person. We must be able to discern right from left. 

Its time to be spiritual about everything,  for to be spiritually minded is life and to be carnally minded is death

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Comments

  1. Interesting read. Thanks for sharing.

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  2. Nice and interesting. But madam it still gose down to the mind setting cos most people hardly go spiritual but ur mind setting will always be another mode of guide in perfect relationship.

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