The Voice

Our actions are the reason for the reactions we get. When our actions are not right and positive, then wrong and negative reactions are inevitable. Our relationships respond to the law of cause and effect. Most reactions from others are what our actions have ignited. Our actions are like the seeds and other's reactions are the harvest. The quality of our harvest is dependent on the quality of our seed.  I counseled a woman, who complains that her man didn't celebrate her success. Only to find out that she didn't even shared the success with her partner. She only shared it with Face book and assumed that he must have seen the post and ignored. Just when I told her to share it with him and mentioned that it’s skipped her mind, she got all the reactions she needed and craved. Those little things we don't pay attention to, are the little foxes that spoils the vine. The root cause in that relationship is our lines of actions. Most acts we see people display and ...

"Give me, Give me Attitude" shortens the life span of any relationship, because life is a give and take, while death is a take and take. Any relationship without an exchange (give and take) will soon be dead. When anyone takes too much from a relationship than they give, life is being taken away from it gradually.  He who only knows how to take and not to give, becomes a parasite and might never be "A can't do without person". We should give, not because the other person lacks, but because we need to make deposits in order to withdraw for account not to show danger. I had lost friends in the past because of this deficiency, not because I wanted anything back, but because we all need to bring something to the table (time, effort or money) even if it’s not equivalent. Just like the image above is a moment of reunion, where we shared value. God GIVES us life and we GIVE him the glory. Our parent GIVE birth to us and we GIVE them honor. A man GIVES the ...

The golden rule for love, is love your neighbor as yourself. No one can give what they don't have, so when you can't love yourself, then you can't love another. Because love start from self and flowing through to others. So when you don't know how to love yourself, loving others will be mission impossible. More so, the love you can't give to yourself, you should not expect from others, because loving yourself, set a good pace for others to love you. “Your partner will find it easy and irresistible to love you, when they find you loving yourself”. Inside SELF - LOVE, is self - care, self - respect, self - confidence, self - healing, self - belief, self - development, self - focus, self - awareness, self - help, self - healing, self - control, self - forgiveness, self - acceptance and self - esteem. This picture explain one of my moment of self-care at oriental luxury hotel, giving myself the deserve treat Self love is greater than other’s lov...

Do you know why The Triune God would forever remain one? It is because the Son is loyal to The Father and The Holy Spirit is loyal to The Son and The Father is loyal to them both.   There is no house that is divided against itself that shall stand. Being a loyalist earns you loyalty from another. A loyal person will always attract commitment from others. When a loyal person compels you to go a mile, you naturally would want to go twain for the person. Most times, what we lack is what we haven't given or given enough. My husband is one loyalist I can't fathom his depth, and he has through that, won the loyalty of countless others, starting with me on top of the list. Loyalty is replicative in nature. When anyone gives it, it invokes it in the person you are loyal to. Remember how Jonathan was loyal to David and in turn, David remained loyal to him, even after his death extending to his son. #LoyaltyReplicate #LoyaltySustains #LoyaltyBreedsContinu...