Relationship Foundation One : Self-Love

The golden rule for love, is love your neighbor as yourself. No one can give what they don't have, so when you can't love yourself, then you can't love another.

Because love start from self and flowing through to others. So when you don't know how to love yourself, loving others will be mission impossible.

More so, the love you can't give to yourself, you should not expect from others, because loving yourself, set a good pace for others to love you.

“Your partner will find it easy and irresistible to love you, when they find you loving yourself”.

Inside SELF - LOVE, is self - care, self - respect, self - confidence, self - healing, self - belief, self - development, self - focus, self - awareness, self - help, self - healing, self - control, self - forgiveness, self - acceptance and self - esteem.

This picture explain one of my moment of self-care at oriental luxury hotel, giving myself the deserve treat

Self love is greater than other’s love, because people will only love you, the way they see you love yourself. Besides lack of self love can make anyone a burden to their partner.

Self love is the reason; anyone won’t want to hurt their partner, because they don't want to go through the process of self guilt. It is also the reason they would forgive easily, because they love themselves too much to want to go through the pain of bitterness or carry the weight of anger.

Self loving makes our relationship a haven and an abode of happiness, making each partner a better person.

#SelfLovingIsDelightsome

#LovingYouIsLovingOthers

#SelfLoveIsNotTheSameAsSelfishness

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