Relationship Boosters: Consciousness of Cause and Effect

Our actions are the reason for the reactions we get. When our actions are not right and positive, then wrong and negative reactions are inevitable.

Our relationships respond to the law of cause and effect. Most reactions from others are what our actions have ignited. Our actions are like the seeds and other's reactions are the harvest. The quality of our harvest is dependent on the quality of our seed.

I counseled a woman, who complains that her man didn't celebrate her success. Only to find out that she didn't even shared the success with her partner. She only shared it with Face book and assumed that he must have seen the post and ignored. Just when I told her to share it with him and mentioned that it’s skipped her mind, she got all the reactions she needed and craved.

Those little things we don't pay attention to, are the little foxes that spoils the vine. The root cause in that relationship is our lines of actions. Most acts we see people display and we call actions are only a reaction, meaning an action must have taken place.

Let’s be mindful of our actions, because we are the cause for the effect we see and get. Instead of seeking to correct people's reaction (feedback), let's check our actions (the root cause) and we will have the right relationships we desire and deserves.

#BeSelfConscious

#SetTheGoodPaceForOthers

#ReactionsIsAnAfterEffectOfAnAction

#PutTheManTogetherAndYourWorldWillBeTogether

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