Relationship Boosters: Avoid Misplacing Priorities

Often times, we place what should start our priority list at the very end, we empower what should not be and dispower what should actually be and then we find out that, we are dissatisfied and displaced.

A number of relationships suffer from misplaced priorities. In our early years of marriage, I nearly tread that path of placing my career above my marriage, but I have a husband who will not settle for less, who won’t let anything come above our marriage after God.

I am thankful he didn't let us settle for less, rather we went for more. And just when our marriage was rightly placed and positioned, then our career fell in a better state. We place our marriage above my choices and his preferences, everything we do, we do it for US. We also place people above things and achievements, to us family is everything and it has helped us a great deal.

Do you care to know why it has to be my husband or nobody else and why he is my topmost priority? It is because he also placed me as his first, second and third priorities and that way, I can’t stop living for him and won’t stop making him the life that I live.

"Whatever we place value on, is what will in turn add value to us". And the beautiful part of it, is that anyone can retrace to have a value rearrangement if need be.

#FamilyIsEverything

#PlacePeopleAboveAchievement

#WeIsGreaterThanIOrYou

#SayNoToMisplacedPirority

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