Relationship Boosters: Knowledge of No 3rd Gender

There is no 3rd gender, there is either male or female. If anyone gives up on his/her partner, the person is still going to end up with a male/female. So why not learn to work it out and make what you share flourish and who you have glow.

If you think your man/woman isn't good enough, you are still going to end up with same gender, with little insignificant difference or no difference at all. In fact just when you think what you have is less, you would be surprise to know, you can’t even get more outside.

I did a research with five of my males friends and results shows that “men are men, regardless of height, weight, state of origin, educational background and all”, and same goes for female gender.

I then conclude that there is no 3rd gender, “that blue is blue, regardless of its shade and because its sky blue, navy blue or turquoise blue does not change it to green.

Some years into my marriage, few men asked me to give them one of my friends to marry, thinking they would be like me. My answer to them was that "every woman is a raw material that needs the man work in progress on them in order to be his desired and finished product/person".

I told them my husband found me in a raw state and turned me into gold, into a finished product they admire now and I encouraged them to do the same.

It’s better to have a raw material as a partner, that you will make into your taste and desires than look for a finished product you will forever want to unmake. Let’s put our energy in the right course.

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