Relationship Building Block: Be Attentive.

To be loved back is the simplest thing to achieve, if you would love in the right way. It's not enough "To say I love you", but "To do I love you". There is no one you would truly be attentive to, that won't feel loved, and be motivated to love you back.

It's not enough to just see things and hear people, be attentive to details, and listen to what is not shared, and seen. Be deliberate enough to go beneath the surface, be sensitive enough to go the extra miles when you are asked a mile.

I have heard people say to me " I didn't even know there is a hole or need inside of me till you filled it", at other times another said "I didn't even know I need it, till you gave it", and amazingly, this people would give the earth just for me, and can make the heaven stand still for my sake.

We must give value to be valuable. There is no free meal, and even if there is, it is best for it to be earned than to be given. Be conscious to invest all of you into that worth keeping relationship, because no matter how much you give into it, and give up for it, you will earn more from it.

What you give to others, you indirectly gave to yourself.

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