Relationship Booster: Meet a Need

As simple and insignificant a waiter's or a cleaner's job may appear in the work place, the need for them can not be ignored. It is because they serve a need and a purpose that makes them "a can't do without". There was a time I had an 8am class to lecture, the class was on hold for the cleaner to do her job, which took almost 30 mins of my lecture time, yet I can't help not to.

In order to be recognised, respected and relevant in our relationships and marriage, our presence must be serving a need and purpose. No one should occupy space for nothing. No one want to lose any part of their body, either seen or unseen, little or big. The reason is because every part of the body has a function they serve, even to the toes and fingers. Also, you would be respected and cherished when you serve a function or a purpose in the other person's lives.

Has anyone ever being in a situation that you wish you had a longer nails? Because it has its importance and when the need beckons, you won't mind to pay to grow one or beg another who has nails to help you sort it. As a woman, don't be totally dependent on your man and vice versa. Even children serves a purpose in their parent's lives, so why shouldn't a grown up do.

In the past, I had under played the role of children in the house, until when my 2+ old daughter surprised me to do what I couldn't do at the time and what an adult couldn't do easily. Then, I learnt that we need them as much as they need us. The reason why some are not being preferred or celebrated in their diverse relationships is because they are not lubricating their union with their usefulness.

If you can give money, you can give what money can buy or do. If you can't give time, you should be able to give values. If you can give your service in exchange for relevance. If you can't give this, you should be able to give that, but not to be able to give this and that would down play your importance. Little things can play big when it comes to relationships, so begin and continue to give your bits.

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