Relationship Booster : Open Interpretation Len

If you are not already in a relationship, don't rush in, and if you already in, don't rush out. There is nothing new under the sun. Even The Heavens had a touch of earth in it, when one of the angel wanted to be like God. No matter how heaven on earth our relationship or marriage is, it would have a touch of earth in it and we should never see situations as absurd as long as it's not life threatening or abnormal.

You will agree with me that the way we perceive situations are different and sometimes not the exact way they are in reality. There are some perceptions error at play most times, which means that we should not rush to conclude on our partner, and not rush out of what is already working or will eventually work.

Let's learn to give it our best, and be open to see the 360 degree angle to that matter and situation. Also let's endeavor to give him/her a hundred percent chance to work things out. Be very sure that when you want to walk out of it, that nothing else could help. And most times something would make it work, you just haven't laid your hands on it. Don't magnify what you can walk overlook and don't play small important matters.

LIFE IS LIKE A CAKEBREAD, ONE MIGHT BE EATING THE CAKE SIDE, WHILE THE OTHER MIGHT BE EATING THE BREAD SIDE OF IT, REASON WE MUST ALWAYS SEE THE OTHER'S PERSON'S PERSPECTIVE TO THINGS

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