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Relationship Booster: Partner Supporting Partner

 Husbands and wives interchanging and intersecting roles and responsibilities is Partner supporting Partner. The new ideology called women supporting women and men supporting men is touching. It is a honorable mindset for partner to support partner. 


There are billion reasons to do this, because this is one person you are forever tied with and it would be in your best interest to watch his/her back. Husbands, It's not enough to provide her daily needs, you need to support her dreams, vision and make her goals realisable. Wives, it's not enough to be home makers, you need to be spiritually, emotionally and financially available and supportive, as physical availability is not enough. We need to make his leadership and kingship an easy and a fulfilling journey for him and us.

Let's learn to do more, and beyond what society, culture and religion expect from us. Let's act in the interest of both parties. We would forever be greater than I, both in quantity and in quality, as such we should let a collective culture prevail over individualistic culture.

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