RELATIONSHIP BOOSTER: Love What He Loves

The proof of love is showing genuine interest in what interests your lover. Help him love it and join him to love it. Loving it just the way she loves it, is the cheapest way to her heart. Don't be disinterested in what interests your partner.

There is no one who truly care about what you care for, that won't be dear to you. Just like, we naturally like people who sames resemblance with us, shares our hobbies, bears same name with us, come from our state, even a stranger who knows and calls us by your first name.

Even God is not an exception of this relationship block and booster. Friendship with the world is enemity with God. It simply means, we show love by loving what our lover loves. We must not be lover of self more than lover of God. By doing His will, we show that we love him.

It's no pretence to genuinely be interested in what she values and in what matters to him. It's simply you making a strong statement that "I prioritise you, and I value what you value, even if it's outside of my values.

If she loves to be a stylist, why don't you brush it up to the level acceptable for you. If what he fancies is sport, why don't you help him look for opportunities around sport to make him blossom than refute and dislike his reality. Disliking His/her reality simply means that you don't want to be a part of it. What you despise, you will never have the ability, wisdom or creativity to keep it or nurture it.

My husband effortlessly support all my dreams and desires. As long as it's aligns with my family values, he is all out for it. He act beyond being a husband, he mentors, sponsors, and motivate all the way. I also throw myself all out for him when it comes to his goals and aspirations and this has caused our friendship to grow and my marriage to flourish.

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